Old Man Winter is back with a vengeance.  That’s okay.  I like the snow – and I love the hockey.   

You can play pond hockey, drop-in hockey or beer league hockey, but for me, the best hockey is the pick-up game at Michigan’s Yost Arena on Tuesday nights.  

The game features some of the best players in the area, most of them former Michigan players, many of whom played pro hockey. But a few wannabes, like me, have gotten regular spots.  It’s by invitation only, and I only got invited because I knew the guy started it.  Jeff Bourne -- known as “Tiny,” thanks to his 5-6 frame -- cared as much about attitude as ability.  As he said: If you don’t pass, you’re an ass.   

Tiny’s dad was Canadian.  So it was only natural that he and his younger brother, Roger, grew up playing hockey in the Bourne’s back yard.   

Tiny wasn’t a great player, but he loved the game. Every year, Tiny tried out for the Ann Arbor Pioneer high school team, and every year he got cut.  Every year, that is, until his senior year, when his brother Roger – a freshman who was already bigger and better – tried out too.     

As expected, Roger made the team.  But so did Tiny.  When Tiny was driving them home, he told Roger he knew why the coach finally took him:

So he could drive his younger brother to the rink.  

But Tiny didn’t feel slighted.  He was thrilled to finally make the team, and watch his brother play, even while Tiny rode the bench.  Tiny liked to point out that they were one of the most productive pair of brothers in Pioneer history, totaling 201 points.  Roger got 200 of those, and Tiny added the one.     

Roger went on to play at Michigan.  His biggest fan, by far, was his big brother, Tiny.  Roger returned the favor by introducing Tiny to Lauri, one of Roger’s classmates. They hit it off immediately.  She said, “You’re just like Roger!”   

“No,” Tiny said.  “Roger is just like me!” 

They had two kids.  Tiny coached his son’s teams, he coached his daughter’s teams, and he organized our skates on Tuesdays.  And that’s where I got to know him best.   

On paper, Tiny and I had almost nothing in common, from our passports to our politics.  But none of that seemed to matter.  Tiny had a way of drawing people to him, and the game he loved – me included.   

Six years ago, between Christmas and New Year’s, Roger was skating the puck down the ice, and Tiny, playing defense for the other team, stopped him cold.  It was a great play.  

It was also Tiny’s last play.  He returned to the bench, sat down, and fell forward.  He was just 47 – and he was gone.   

At Tiny’s funeral, you’d have thought it was a service for a Hall of Famer. The standing room only crowd included Jeff Daniels and Red Berenson, Michigan’s hockey coach; Tiny’s teammates at Pioneer; and the girls on his daughter’s hockey team, sitting together, wearing their blue jerseys.   

Tiny might have loved hockey more than the game loved him.  But that never stopped him.  Every year, he got better, and every year, he drew more people to the game. 

What did Tiny get out of it?  To answer that question, all you had to do was look around that church.  

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